Cranky Fibro Girl http://www.jennyryan.com Harnessing the healing power of snark Thu, 27 Jul 2017 18:53:48 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.7.5 Amnesty And Permission: Come And Get Yours Right Here http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/07/amnesty-and-permission-come-and-get-yours-right-here/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/07/amnesty-and-permission-come-and-get-yours-right-here/#comments Thu, 27 Jul 2017 18:53:48 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12539 I have decided to declare today A Day of Permission and Amnesty. I am giving myself permission to not have to create anything, and amnesty from guilt and self-flagellation over not having written or posted anything new here for the past couple of months.

What about you? What Permission or Amnesty do you need in order to support yourself today?

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If Low-Carb Advocates Want Me To Take This Healthy Eating Thing Seriously, Then They Have GOT To Stop Touting Recipes That Begin Like This: http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/06/if-low-carb-advocates-want-me-to-take-this-healthy-eating-thing-seriously-then-they-have-got-to-stop-touting-recipes-that-begin-like-this/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/06/if-low-carb-advocates-want-me-to-take-this-healthy-eating-thing-seriously-then-they-have-got-to-stop-touting-recipes-that-begin-like-this/#comments Mon, 12 Jun 2017 18:53:48 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12517 “[This is] my go-to breakfast whenever I have some ground pork or goat meat in the fridge.”

(Oh sure. I keep my goat meat right next to my narwhal patties and my unicorn links.)

Or this:

If you have ground venison, wild boar, or other game meat, try substituting it for the pork.”

(Right. I’ll make sure to bring some back the next time we visit our summer cottage in Sherwood Forest.)

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And By This Shall Thou Show That Thou Art Friends Of The Highest Order http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/06/and-by-this-shall-thou-show-that-thou-art-friends-of-the-highest-order/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/06/and-by-this-shall-thou-show-that-thou-art-friends-of-the-highest-order/#respond Thu, 08 Jun 2017 18:59:37 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12515 in that, upon returning from thy journeying unto Atlanta, thou deliverest unto us sixteen (16!) 12-packs of Diet Code Red Mountain Dew, like water unto the harsh, parched sands of the driest desert.

Allelujah, allelujah.

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Three Men And A House (Dave, Pt.2) http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/three-men-and-a-house-dave-pt-2/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/three-men-and-a-house-dave-pt-2/#respond Wed, 31 May 2017 17:58:17 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12507 (Originally published 11/19/2009)

Given that we have now been living in our house for over ten years, my husband and I are no strangers to the world of home repairs. As a matter of fact, I have just now had to flee my house as the roofers have been at work since 7 AM, pounding their Shingles Of Death directly into my nervous system. And in order to make my escape I had to use my husband’s and my “emergency code” to inform him that, not only had the roofers parked their van directly behind my spot in the garage, they had also begun using it as a temporary dump for all their stuff, stuff that apparently was being thrown away in the imaginary dumpster located right next to the real-life dumpster, which, incidentally, was blocking the other side of our garage.) And so, I COULD NOT GET OUT.

And lo, there was a giant meltdown in the land. Because, if you know anything about fibromyalgia, one of its possible causes-as well as one of its most debilitating symptom-is a sensory processing disorder. As in, your system is unable to process all the sensory stimulation it receives. As in, there are times when the experience of air touching your skin can be the most excruciating thing you’ve ever experienced. As in, if you are ever looking for a way to torture and/or murder one of us, sending a crew to pound on our roof All. Day. Long. is definitely the way to go.

Oh, and by the way: if you also instruct your Latin American roof crew to just gaze at us and respond, “Huh?” with blank, uncomprehending stares when we ask them, IN FLAWLESS SPANISH, if they could please move their truck out of our driveway, so that we can  PLEASE, PLEASE GET OUT OF OUR HOUSE!!,  forcing us to have to revert to Stupid American Loud Talking And Giant, Idiotic Gestures, that will pretty much be the final nail in our coffin.

However:  despite everything, this is actually the best home repair experience we’ve had since we’ve lived here. Everyone showed up when they said they would, did everything they said they would do, in the time they said it would take them to do it, and now, with the exception of the dumpster which has yet to be picked up and carried away, you can’t even tell that anyone was even working on our house two days ago.

Unfortunately, that has not always been our the case for us.

The first time we had to deal with something like this occurred about six months after we first moved into the house, when an ice storm threw a giant hunk of tree directly through our bedroom roof.

Now the important thing to know here is that our house is the second one in as you turn off of a pretty well-traveled road. So we and our tarp were completely visible to everyone driving by. Which meant that we received offers from every single roofing company in the city, most of which were formed as the “owners” drove up to our house, and all of which could be summed up as, “Two Men And A Truck. And Sometimes, A Ladder.”

And then a few years later there was Dave. Dave showed up at our door one day and delivered a very intense lecture detailing our urgent and immediate need to hire him to pressure wash our driveway and deck, and also allow him to “hot chemical” our roof.

Now normally we would not have hired someone off the street but, 1) we did need some work done, and 2) Dave had the most wonderful voice of any human being who has ever existed on this planet. It’s very similar to that of Mike Rowe of “Dirty Jobs”, and I would have stood there in my dirty driveway and listened to him speak nonsense for hours, it was that compelling.

Unfortunately, his voice would turn out to be my downfall. Because it would continue to speak of the wonders that Dave could perform on our humble home. And so I would tell my husband, and then he would agree to the work, and then I would give Dave a check, and then there would be no sign of Dave for up to two weeks at a time, when he would then once again appear-after having done no work-and ask for yet another check.

I kept trying to explain this situation to my husband who was unclear as to why I was so increasingly angry, and who kept  telling me that everything was okay, and that I really needed to calm down. Then one evening he picked up the checkbook, rifled through the pages, and asked, “Hey-where is all this money going?!”

“THAT IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO TELL YOU!!!” I shrieked, as the skin began to melt off of my face. (I’m definitely the person you want to have around you in a crisis, as calm, cool, and collected is clearly my middle name.) Only I don’t think he actually heard me, because I’m pretty sure I was operating on a frequency that even dogs could not pick up.

As it turned out, Dave was in the middle of a pretty big life crisis, one that caused him to take our checks directly to the music store in order to buy the very latest in amps and electric guitars, which in and of themselves are just fine, but are really not all that useful when it comes to re-painting someone’s house.

Luckily for us Dave’s partner is really honest, and acts with tremendous integrity. He was also a little miffed at Dave, as he too was unable to use Dave’s electronics when it came to things like, oh, buying some paint, and maybe paying his mortgage. So he managed to get ahold of Dave and salvage some of the money, and then came and completed the job himself. For which we will be eternally grateful.

And then there was The Week Of Hank, a week during which I unfortunately had contracted both bronchitis and a sinus infection. Now as you all know, normally I would have spent a week like that lying prostrate on the living room floor and weeping. But this time I couldn’t, because I had to supervise Hank.

And let me tell you, what Hank wanted was someone to listen. Not listen in the normal sense, where he would say something, and then I would say something back, and then we would have an interactive conversation as two, regular adults. No, when I mean listen, I mean this:

Me: surreptitiously moving my eyes over toward the sink where Hank was rinsing out his paint tray, to see how the job was progressing.

Hank: apparently feeling the subtle breeze generated by my passing glance.

Hank: “Hey, you know it’s really great to meet you your husband’s told me so many great things about his wife you know I’ve had three wives the first one was a model from London yeah she was gorgeous but it didn’t work out and my second wife she was from Latin America and now her son is living with me even though we aren’t married anymore and lately  he’s been having these seizures and so the other day he drove his car into a telephone pole because he had a seizure while he was driving home from school and so I had to take him to the emergency room and now he’s okay but he has a concussion and hey you know I just got married again but before I did I had to reassure my brother because he told me that if I married any more foreigners then he would disown me from the family and my wife she’s a real looker but she’s from this country and hey do you guys have a broom?”

All day. Every day. For a week.

But finally, our time with Hank drew to a close, and life around here went back to normal. Until we realized that we could no longer find our broom. And so my husband called up Hank, to see if he might know something we didn’t.

My husband: “Hey, Hank.”

Hank: “Hey.”

My husband: “You know, we really appreciate all the work you did around here for us. But since you finished we haven’t been able to find our broom. Do you have any idea where it might be?”

Hank: “Well, have you checked the attic?”

So now, all these years and all this work later, I’m really hoping that we’ve got enough good house mojo to keep us going repair-free for a good long time. But if any of you need some work done, I can recommend a few good men for you.

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Once Upon A Time There Was A Man Called Dave, Pt. 1 http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-man-called-dave-pt-1/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-man-called-dave-pt-1/#respond Wed, 24 May 2017 19:05:03 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12500 So as occasionally happens when you’re a homeowner, last week we had a representative of a local business show up on our porch and do his best to convince us to give him some of our money for, I’m not kidding, “a problem that you probably haven’t noticed yet.” I said no, which of course he ignored, and he continued to prattle on about his company’s wonderful extermination service and how they were giving it away “for dirt cheap” the following day.

Happily I’ve gotten old enough and confident enough that I can say no without feeling like I have to justify myself, although I did have a number of reasons. I could have told him that I don’t hire companies that have to go door to door to drum up business, which is true. I could have said that I don’t give money to people who come to my door because I’ve been scammed before, which is also true. But the true reason I don’t hire door-to-door salesmen lies a decade in the past with a man named Dave.

Coming Up For Air

(originally published 6/4/2007)

I know I haven’t had a lot to say here lately, and that is due to the fact that I have been deep in the bowels of Being A Homeowner.

It all started so innocently back at the beginning of May when my husband uttered those four little words: “We’ve got wood rot.”

So that meant that I performed all my tutoring sessions for the rest of that month to the mellifluous background soundtrack melody of huge pieces of wood being ripped off the side of the house.

Because you know that the repairs did not stop with just the affected section. Oh no. Because that section was right next to the porch, a porch that of course became sadly shabby and run-down looking when compared to the brand spankin’, freshly painted new side of the house. So naturally we had to rip out the entire porch railing and prepare to “redo the deck”, a portentous sounding project if I ever heard one.

Apparently I then spent a lot of time beseeching the universe for Ways I Can Get Out Of Having To Do This Please!, because one day when I came home from working out, there, in my driveway, was Dave.

Dave has a wonderful voice, a voice very much like that of Mike Rowe, former opera singer and current host of the TV show “Dirty Jobs” on the Discovery Channel. I really didn’t care what Dave had to say, as long as he just kept on saying it. But then I began listening to his words.

“Behold,” said Dave, “your concrete is all black and dirty, like unto the dark heart of the blackest night. But I wilt come and wash it with my special ‘hot chemical’, and lo, it will shine like the clearest diamond and sparkle like the brightest sun.”

“Hm,” I replied.

“And verily,” continued Dave, “we also do decks.”

So we hired Dave to come and work on our house. And Dave pressure washed the house, the deck, the driveway, and all our walkways. And it was very good.

But it was also dangerous, because that was the moment that we all began Getting Ideas.

“You know,” I said to my husband, “wouldn’t it be a great idea to have your family and my family down for Memorial Day?”

“You know,” said Dave, “now that the house is clean, this is the perfect time to re-paint it.”

And so his idea and my idea met, collided, and then took on a whole life of their own.

Now that we are getting the entire house re-painted,

-Of course we have to rebuild the entire deck railing from scratch

-and re-landscape the entire front lawn

-and construct a special container on the side lawn to hold the enormous pile of gravel that’s been sitting on our driveway for an entire year (don’t ask)

-And sure, I can also prepare all of my students for their final exams in Spanish

-And host some out-of-town guests

-And easily conclude the final “tapering off” of the anti-depressant I’ve been taking for the past 14 years a mere week before we host our first ever joint family holiday gathering

Not surprisingly, my body responded to all of my insane delusions by sticking out its tongue, making a funny face, and contracting strep throat (which in turn meant receiving various helpful, yet painful, shots in the ass.)

If you listen very closely, you can still hear the quiet ticking of the Crazy Time Bomb Of Doom that I had become. Clearly, a meltdown was imminent.

The final straw occurred on the Thursday before the party when I tried, and failed, to plant three gardenia bushes in our front yard. It should give you some indication of just how completely at-the-end-of-my-ability-to-function-in-everyday-life I was that I was incapable of digging three holes in the ground, filling them with plants that had already been grown, and covering them back up with dirt.

Fortunately my husband arrived home not long after that and took over, although my hysterical wailing at first convinced him that I’d somehow accidentally lopped off one of my arms with the garden shears.

So he took over the planting, and I decided to do a few more weeks of “tapering” the meds, and the world slowly began to right itself once more.

Which was a very good thing, because the next day when he showed up to work on the house Dave motioned for me to come outside to where he was standing.

“Hi,” said Dave. “I think you have termites.”

Happily we don’t, and the party went well, and Dave has just about run out of Finding Things To Fix. I think.

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Fibromyalgia Awareness Day 2017: What I Really Want You To Know http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/fibromyalgia-awareness-day-2017-what-i-really-want-you-to-know/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/fibromyalgia-awareness-day-2017-what-i-really-want-you-to-know/#respond Fri, 12 May 2017 18:32:33 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12494 Here is a roundup of some of the posts I’ve written over the last few years to help articulate just what it’s like to live with this illness.

Cranky Fibro Girl And The Puzzle:

“Today is not like yesterday, because fibromyalgia is a puzzle, where all of the pieces are always in constant motion, and are always shape-shifting into something different and new.”

This Is What Having Fibromyalgia Feels Like:

“Right this very minute there’s a bird singing outside my office window, and I wish to God that it would Just. Shut. Up.

I don’t hate birds; I suffer with a chronic illness. I have fibromyalgia which, among other things, is a chronic pain disorder that takes even the sweetest, gentlest sensory input and turns it into unbearable physical agony, as if your nervous system is constantly being struck by lightning.”

The Marathon:

“So tired of being in pain.

So tired of thinking about being in pain.

So tired of talking about how much I think about being in pain.

How many different ways can I say, “Hey-I hurt! And it really  *$@ing sucks!”

Why Pain-Free Days Aren’t Really All That “Free”:

“I have been having a few pain-free days lately (although I’m terrified to even write this, lest I jinx it somehow. It’s hard not to be superstitious when you’re living with something as unpredictable as a chronic illness). I’m very grateful, and very appreciative for these days, but I’ve stopped announcing them to the world at large, because people who aren’t sick just don’t get the fact that starting to feel good after m-a-n-y days of being in pain is just as difficult and disorienting as it is when you start to feel bad after a handful of days of feeling good. And when I try to explain to anyone else why I’m kind of weirded out by a feeling-good-day and don’t know what to do with it, as much as I know they want to help, I cannot “just enjoy it.”

Dear Lyrica Commercial: As A Real-Life Fibromyalgia Patient And Not Just An Actor Playing One On TV, I Have To Say That Your Commercials Are EXTREMELEY Misleading:

“But treating fibromyalgia is not like treating a sinus headache or strep throat, where the parameters of the illness are known and understood, there’s a standard treatment that clears up most cases, and there’s a predictable, linear improvement once the patient starts taking the necessary medication. Clear cause, clear treatment, clear effect.

Fibromyalgia on the other hand is a puzzle where the pieces are not only constantly moving, but also constantly changing size and shape. And speaking for myself and most of the fibro patients I know, there is no one thing that gets rid of all our pain. We’ve all had to develop an entire range of tools to deal with our illness.”

Aware:

“After about five years, give or take, my symptoms stabilized a bit. I’d learned enough about how fibro affected me, my body, and my capacity to be able to venture out in the world a little. From here I’ve been focusing my awareness on how to create a happy, thriving, everyday life while also living with chronic pain and illness. So it is from this place that I offer a few of the lessons I’ve learned over these past few years of being ill.”

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When Your Husband Is Driving You To The Eye Doctor First Thing In The Morning And He Starts The Conversation Like This: http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/when-your-husband-is-driving-you-to-the-eye-doctor-first-thing-in-the-morning-and-he-starts-the-conversation-like-this/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/05/when-your-husband-is-driving-you-to-the-eye-doctor-first-thing-in-the-morning-and-he-starts-the-conversation-like-this/#comments Fri, 05 May 2017 19:04:28 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12492 “You know, if there’s anything I’ve learned from serial killers…”

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Apparently This Is How You Use Your Powers For Good When You’re An Engineer http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/04/apparently-this-is-how-you-use-your-powers-for-good-when-youre-an-engineer/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/04/apparently-this-is-how-you-use-your-powers-for-good-when-youre-an-engineer/#respond Thu, 27 Apr 2017 23:33:14 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12489 Wherein the only Ph.D. I will ever hold is in The Art Of Being Lost.

Originally published 1/3/2007

If I had to identify one of the most outstanding characteristics of my personality, it would unfortunately have to be my Stunning Inability To Locate Myself In Time And Space. I get lost all the time, so often in fact that there now exists a Greatest Hits Collection of my best “getting lost” stories:

-the time I got lost leading a group of friends who were helping us move into our new house

-the time in grad school when I got lost on The Loop in Athens, GA-it was a LOOP for crying out loud, with a FIXED NUMBER of places you could go. Eventually I HAD to find something that looked familiar-and called my husband (then boyfriend) who was in grad school in Atlanta to announce that, “It’s pitch black and I have no idea where I am. Oh and by the way, I’m completely out of gas and am running on fumes. And even if you wanted to come and rescue me you couldn’t, because there’s no way to tell you how to find me. Tell my parents I love them.”

-the time I was driving down Interstate 85, headed to the same place I’d gone every single Monday night for an entire year, missed my exit, got off the highway, turned around, and headed back in the opposite direction (because, HELLO, that’s supposed to work!), somehow ended up on an entirely different Interstate and had to call my husband to guide me home so I didn’t accidentally end up in Alabama.

-the time I was in Phoenix and had to physically drive to the airport in order to change my ticket so I could fly home early. But I didn’t actually know how to get to the airport from my hotel, even though I had driven that route only 4 days earlier, so I called my husband and asked him to guide me there. (I don’t think he minded that much, because it did give him an excuse to fire up Google Earth). Then I had to drive back to my hotel, the exact same way that I had just come only minutes earlier. But I got lost again and had to have him reverse all the directions for me verbally in order to make it back safely.

I truly am one of those people who needs to wear an ID bracelet at all times. But instead of having a medical alert mine would need to say, “While extremely proficient in exploring the realms of the mind, wearer is completely incapable of navigating herself around the physical world.”

My husband, of course, does not have this problem at all. As a matter of fact, he is so good at orienting himself in the physical realm of time and space that he would routinely call me up when we were in grad school to tell me about the trips he was taking with the outdoors club where they would drop everyone off in the North Georgia wilderness armed only with a topographical map of the area, a compass, and a knife, and tell them, “OK, meet back here tomorrow at this big, completely unidentifiable pile of rocks at the time when the sun causes the shadows to kind of look like the shape of a bird, or maybe more like a boat, over here on this equally unidentifiable patch of grass.” And he would.

It’s fortunate for him that he had this early training, because he actually got to put it to use a few months ago when he was on a business trip to El Paso, attending a meeting in Mexico.

He hadn’t brought much information with him, because he just planned to buy a map of Juarez in El Paso and then find his way around from there. Unfortunately there was not a single map of Juarez to be had anywhere in El Paso.

But at the moment when many others would’ve given up (“Hi, boss. You know that business you sent me down here to conduct for you? Well, unfortunately I’m not gonna be able to do it. Yeah, um, Mexico’s closed.”) he remained undaunted.

“Yeah, I couldn’t find a map,” he said. “But I had already been tracking the location of the plant on Google Earth (Um, WHAT?!) so I knew where it was. So I just went back to my hotel, downloaded the satellite images, used them to draw myself a paper map, counted the number of streets and landmarks like large buildings, and then traced my way back from the plant to the border.”

Oh, sure. That was gonna be my next suggestion.

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Hello, Middle Age http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/04/hello-middle-age/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/04/hello-middle-age/#respond Wed, 26 Apr 2017 20:47:01 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12484 Our move to Raleigh has resulted in a ton of great things for us, like living in the same city as my brother and his family instead of being 6 hours away, getting to put our stamp on our brand new home, and new work opportunities for my husband.  We are also meeting fun new people and being social, like the double date we had a few weekends ago with another couple.

As we got to know each other over Thai, our new friends asked us how long we had been together. When I replied that it will be 28 years in December one partner looked at the other one and said, “That’s as long as you’ve been alive!”

I felt a little better at my doctor’s appointment the next day. After examining me my new eye doctor announced that even though I’m 44, I have the eyes of a 41-year old.

“That’s great!” I said.

“Yes,” he replied. “But that means they’re gonna go downhill really quickly.”

 

 

 

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Free At Last http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/03/free-at-last-3/ http://www.jennyryan.com/2017/03/free-at-last-3/#respond Thu, 30 Mar 2017 13:00:11 +0000 http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=12457 Wherein I really wish someone had given me a map beforehand with a giant red “X” and the message, “This is a REALLY bad idea.”

Originally published 7/31/2005

I think one of my favorite things about being in my thirties is the fact that I no longer feel like I have to pretend about who I really am (or am not) in order to get people to like me. This was not always the case.

Back during our first year of marriage my husband, who is himself an Eagle Scout, worked as a volunteer with a Boy Scout troop and I, caught up in the flush of wanting to impress my new husband, agreed to go along on one of his troop’s camping trips.

Important Side Note: If you have never been camping before, I would HIGHLY recommend that your first trip not be with a troop of scouts, because any points you feel you have gained by being “a really cool wife” will quickly fade when you realize that, compared to everyone else on the trip including elementary school students, trail dogs, etc., you feel like a giant, incompetent wuss.

I really should have known that I was in over my head when my husband and I went to the outdoor store to buy me some gear. We did not go there to buy a cool backpack, or a kicky bandanna, or a nifty trail tool. No,we went so that I could buy my very own, neon orange, plastic poo shovel.

Things kind of took a turn for the worse once we had hiked up the trail to the spot where we were going to camp that night. We had foolishly drunk all the water we’d packed, so my husband went down to the river, filled our two plastic bottles with water, ran some iodine through the bottles, and handed one to me. I looked at the bottle, looked at him, and said, “It’s brown, And. There. Are. Bugs. In. It!” He looked at me and said, (and please bear in mind that he had only been a husband for a little under a year and hadn’t yet developed the sensitivity that he has now after nine years of marriage), “Well, the bugs are dead. And we have this lemonade mix to add to it!”

Even now, eight years later, I can’t think of this story without experiencing total incredulity at his response.  And even now, eight years later, my husband insists that we would not have even had this problem, if only he had packed a darker colored drink mix.

Happily I did recover enough from this trip to start going out on day hikes with my husband and our friends. As a matter of fact I was pretty impressed with myself on our last trip, because not only was I wearing my very own pair of official hiking boots, but they were so well used that we had to patch them together with duct tape.

(Yes of course we had duct tape-I was hiking with three engineers! As a matter of fact, the only reason that I didn’t have to sleep suspended in between two trees in some kind of jury-rigged duct tape shelter was the fact that the other spouse who came on this trip was five months pregnant.)

However, there are still some hurdles to overcome before I can consider going on another camping trip, as is clearly illustrated by the following conversation I had with my husband the last time he went camping.

10:00 pm. The phone rings.
Me: “Hello?”
My husband: “Hey, Jenny. I need your help.”
Me: (panicking at all the possible emergencies that could befall campers, and wondering just exactly where I can rent an emergency extraction helicopter at 10 pm on a Saturday night) “Oh my gosh, are you all right?!”
My husband: “What? Oh, yeah, we’re fine. I just need you to get the Almanac so you can tell us the geographical size of Liechtenstein in square miles.”

Silly me-what was I thinking?! These were highly trained, highly capable, highly intelligent men. Clearly the only emergency situation in which they could possibly have found themselves would be to be without immediate access to the geographical data of tiny, landlocked, central European countries.

So anyway, the jury is still out on the whole camping thing, but between you and me I wouldn’t hold my breath.

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